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March 8, 2010

How To Wear A Diamond Crown. Seriously.

Filed under: Personalization, Precious Things, Queen of Cashmere, Various & Sundry — Queen of Cashmere @ 7:15 PM

I love crowns and am really vested in them.  My logo was only the first of many crowns that I appropriated and assimilated and it truly would have been a shame if this Queen gig would have been a flash in the pan.  Intially, I chose the logo crown because it was very Josephine and it’s been the jumping off point for endless others.

Early on, some asked me, perhaps a little bitchily, just who the heck had made me Queen.  Well, I’ll tell you what I told them.  “I’m self anointed.  It’s a Napoleonic concept.”  I really revel in that.   It gives me the jollies and starts my days right.  Embrace the concept and you too can be Queen (or King) – just not on my patch of cashmere.

I wear a crown almost daily and before you get a vision of me as Queen Victoria stting behind the computer in a jeweled coronet and lace lappets, let me explain.

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Currently,  I wear a diamond crown pendant mixed in with stands of pearls.  It’s a jeweled version of my logo crown and I stumbled on it purely by accident a few years ago.  My good friend Frank Pollak offers amazing, fine Art Deco and other vinatge jewelry on 1st Dibs.  Frank has a gorgeous Art Deco conference room that overlooks Rockefeller Center on 5th Avenue and when I’m in New York and need a place to show cashmere to buyers he often, generously,  lets me conduct my appointments there.  Lucky me.  I rarely leave empty handed either.  My diamond crown was a real score.  Hung from a chain around my neck or pinned to a black beret military style,  I rarely step out without it. 

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Do you remember my post on Sandi Miller Burrows?  She of the fabulous monogram pendants.  Well, since my first post we have become friends.  Although my pendant is still on the drawing board, I have been inclined to have her design one that incorporates a crown.  I wouldn’t be the first woman to desire a jeweled monogram surmounted by a crown. 

Princess Margaret was quite the bon vivant of her day.  One of the first modern,  royal celebrities, she was strikingly beautiful and unburdened by the royal responsibility that was carried by her sister Lilibet.  Popular and and a real rebel, she was once quoted as saying, “disobedience is a joy”.  She had a penchant for handsome young rogues, living in the fast lane and diamonds.  As Princess Royal she was perfectly within her rights to sport a crown on her head and a dashing gentleman on her arm, but sometimes she opted for a crown on her lapel and a rogue in, oh never mind.

Below is a portarit of Princess Margaret, looking deceptively angelic, and the auction tear sheet for a diamond bauble given to her on the occasion of her 21st birthday.  A curvaceous M surmounted by a diamond diadem, it was auctioned off a few years ago.  I wonder who is the lucky person who wears it now?

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And then there was Catherine the Great of Russia – another royal of legendary libido.  In researching this post, I discovered that in her older years, she actually had someone “test drive” her lovers to make sure that they were of suitable prowess before they were admitted to her bedchamber.   No sense in wasting a night with someone beautiful who could not deliver, is there now?

But to get back on track: while Catherine the Great preferred her crowns on her head, her ladies-in-waiting wore a monogram brooch to signify their service to the empress. I wondered why not a “C”?  I imagine that “E” is for empress though as far as a monogram goes, it seem pretty generic.  I could envision myself wearing something like this, except with a CS,  hanging from a chain around my neck.  Suggesting antiquity my pendant would be chunky, with rose cut diamonds that are slightly irregular, set in blackened, rhodium plated white gold.  Divine, no?  Sandi, are you listening?

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February 12, 2010

Happy Chinese New Year, Firecracker!

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This year,  Lunar or Chinese New Year coincides with Valentine’s Day.   Instead of designing my own mash up celebration, I’m inclined to singularly celebrate the arrival of the Year of the Tiger instead.  Sorry, Cupid.

We have needed new dinner plates in my home for a while.  In searching for a red and white pattern to replace my chipped and pale Bernardaud Louvre dinnerware, I considered these and these.  Ultimately, I purchased the Red Dragon pattern from Mottahedeh.   The dragon, a mythical animal that is revered by the Chinese, symbolizes benevolence and good fortune.  It is also the ancient royal symbol of the Chinese Emperor.  Royal.  Undoubtedly, that speaks to The Queen on some subliminal level and must have been the deciding factor in my chosing  this service.  

Now that we know there will be a party,  and it won’t involve paper plates, we can focus on the menu.  Chinese tradtion dictates eating dumplings to usher in wealth and good luck for the upcoming year.  I can roll with that, for sure.  This year, since I’m a little under the weather from some recent surgery, we will have to order in.  Auspiciously, my favorite restaurant in Chicago just happens to be Asian and is just around the corner.

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I jokingly call Big Bowl on Cedar my second kitchen.  We eat there at least twice a week — if not more.  Whenever we have guests in from out of town they unanimously request to eat at Big Bowl, too.   It’s a place where the food is excellent, the vibe cool, and the prices are like a kiss on the cheek.  Add these attributes to a culinary conscience that adheres to authenticity, quality and sustainable resources and it doesn’t get much better than this.  No wonder there is a well worn path from our front door to theirs.

To make things really festive, how about a Hibiscus Martini? 

Do you recall last month when I recounted my story of sabrage at a party hosted by a gentleman named Adam?  That would be Adam Seger, a Chicago mixologist of great acclaim whose latest creation is a liqueur called Hum Spirit –a lush and sophisticated, 70° potion.  Hum is rum infused with an exotic blend of hibiscus, kaffir lime, cardamom and ginger. 

Hibiscus + Rum = HUM.  De-lish!

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      In shaker, pour over ice

      2oz HUM Spirit Liqueur

     1 oz. Yuzu Sour Mix

      1/2 oz fresh lemon juice

Shake and strain into a martini glass and ganish with a wedge of lime and a star anise.

Enjoy!

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February 9, 2010

Lotto Fantasy- Snow Day Dreaming

Filed under: Destinations, Various & Sundry — Tags: , — Queen of Cashmere @ 5:09 PM

It’s another monster snow day here in Chicago.  The forecasters have said this is going to be an “extended duration event”. 

Once again,  I’m dreaming of a snowy escape.  It’s not the snow coming down on the salty street in front of my apartment which I can see through winter-grime laden windowpanes. Unfortunately, Daniel, the window washer who boldly hangs on hooks outside the building,  wont be back on call until April.

I’m dreaming of heavy pristine snow.  Colorado snow in the kind of setting that makes one sigh and think that they really are a winter person after all.  In the kind of place that makes one wish for dinners for two (or twelve) before a roaring fire.

While I was in Beaver Creek two weeks ago, I picked up the Real Estate Update a big, luxe glossy aimed at making you covetous of the good life.  Instead of reading the newspaper at breakfast, we perused the real estate listings. 

Of course, Conrad the man/boy picked out the houses in the $12-13 million price range.  Like this one with the Gothic, red foyer whose interior architecture literally screamed my name.

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 I don’t think that Conrad realizes homes like that need a staff including a major domo.  My son is a lot like my father, a man of impeccable taste who always had the nicest house on the street, the newest luxury car and the biggest boat at the dock.  Ernie lived large and Conrad is a lot like him.  Let’s hope he finds a way to fulfill his grandest desires and take care of his loving parents in their old age!  

Vail houseOn the other hand, I am a bit more realistic even in the fantasy arena.  However, I’d still need to win the lottery to make my downscaled dream come true.  Now I do know of  several people who have actually won a lottery jackpot.  One couple held the single winning ticket for a $40 million landfall that netted them $18million.  Nice, huh? 

Tonight the Illinois Mega Millions jackpot is $32 Mil.  That would be sufficient, thank you very much.  As I write this, Rom has been sent to the store for some snow day provisions and a winning lottery ticket.

I always say that the fantasy of spending the winnings is well worth the dollar price tag of a ticket.  This is my dream for this week.  How perfect is this charming chalet?  And I might add it’s a comparable deal for a mere $2,850,000.Vail house entry

The interiors would need a little tarting up though.  Inside it was all so brown making every room look like the furniture aisle at Costco.  Obviously, the owners didn’t spend much time drooling over the design blogs or paging through the shelter magazines.  The things I could do.  Oh, another cool million would cover it.

If you came into a $32 million jackpot, where would you go?  This is an exercise in fantasy so cut loose.  Have fun. 

It’s only a buck to dream big.

 

 

 

 

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February 4, 2010

Mad Love: Luscious Flowers and Monograms

Filed under: Details, Personalization, Shopping, Various & Sundry — Tags: , , — Queen of Cashmere @ 6:02 PM

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Jayson Home and Garden in Chicago has a way with, well,  just about everything.

During the summer, the brick-paved, outdoor garden shop is an urban oasis of topiary and green lushness.  I never thought about cut flowers from Jayson Home until, like a breath of fresh air,  an e-mail blew into my inbox this morning.   Mad Love it proclaimed.  Yup.

Leave it to Jayson Home and Garden to add just a little extra something  to make their arrangements stand out.

How about a fragrant arrangement in a julep cup?   Bedside perfection.  And if one is good, a pair is better.

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Or a lush pastel bouquet gussied up with pink and green ribbon?  TrèsParisien, mes amours.

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Va-va-voom red always sets my heart racing.  How about you?  Red

 

Living only a few minutes from the shop, I popped by this afternoon and look what I found.  You know these monogram hors d’oeuvres  plates are right up my alley.  What better excuse is there to have a few friends over for cocktails?

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You can always shop online but be forewarned, the array of merchandise is so beguiling,  you will want everything you see.

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February 2, 2010

Snow Day Delight

Filed under: Destinations, Various & Sundry — Tags: , , — Queen of Cashmere @ 3:50 PM

 It isn’t always possible to pack your bags and run to the other side of the world for a soul recalibration as I did in 2007.   This year, a three day break was all that our schedule would allow.

Conrad the man/boy finished his semester finals and deserved a little fun.  He loves to snowboard so we packed up and headed out toward the Rockies.   Our destination?  Beaver Creek where the motto is “Not Exactly Roughing It”.  

We stayed at the Park Hyatt where the wilderness has been utterly tamed.  There is a great spa, an amazing restaurant and almost anything else one could wish for.   S’mores Happy Hour at the fire pit, anyone?

I do ski but a physical ailment precluded me from taking to the slopes this year.  Admittedly, as my husband and son headed out without me,   I cried a little.    To miss skiing with them just seemed a bit cruel.  However, I’m never one to be waylaid for very long.

Quiet and pristine wilderness was what I craved and a small dose would do it.  So I booked a guide, headed out of town to the Tennesee Pass  and strapped on my snowshoes where the pristine trails went for miles.Trail Marker

 

My guide Pam and I enjoyed the quiet, shared some wonderful Rooibos tea with lavender honey and paused long enough for discussions about ayurvedic healing and panchakarma.  It seemed like we were a million miles from civilization.  In the couple hours that we were out,  we saw only a few other people on cross country skis and snowshoes. 

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 If my entire winter could be like this, who needs spring?

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January 29, 2010

TSA Humor?

Filed under: Various & Sundry — Queen of Cashmere @ 5:00 AM

Last week, in Milwaukee airport, I learned that the TSA had developed a sense of humor.  Who knew?

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As if putting on my shoes would straighten me out!

 

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January 28, 2010

Winter Runaway

Filed under: Culture, Destinations, Various & Sundry — Queen of Cashmere @ 10:48 AM

I’m a city gal born and raised.  Although I love Chicago, the city in winter is a harsh picture rendered in salty black-and-white.  It grinds on even the hardiest of souls.  Around this time of year, I long for a getaway  as far  from the big city as I can get.

Right on cue, three years ago at the end of January, I decided to bolt.  Craving an experience that would be life altering, therapeutic and authentic, I found myself an ayurvedic clinic on a hilltop in Tamil Nadu.  Yes, India.  I wired almost $4000 to a retreat that I hoped would really be there when I got to the end of the road.  My husband, always the skeptic, was aghast. 

One week after I had found the retreat online, and two days after I kissed my family goodbye at O’Hare,  I climbed out of a 4×4 in the middle of the a chilly, starry Indian night.  My leap of faith began to pay off in spades.

The retreat, set in the middle of the rolling  tea plantations of Coonoor, was made up of round buildings.  This architecture corrals the positive energy and keeps in within the retreat.  Looking down the path from the yoga studio toward the center of the retreat you can see the tea bushes that paved almost every hillside for miles.  Let me say now that this was not a a five star, western-style spa.  Far from it.  Thankfully.

View of Retreat AM from Yoga Hall

We were awakened every morning at 6 am for our ayurvedic tonics and the first of our three daily yoga classes began thirty minutes later.  Sun salutations were begun just as birdsong announced the sunrise over the mountains.  The retreat is perched on a mountainside 6,000 ft above sea level so mornings were cold and the yoga studio was heated by 2 wood-burning fireplaces.

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The kitchen was completely vegetarian.  We all gathered in the garden for breakfast which was my favorite meal – the organic fruit came from the retreat’s farm and was accented by healing coconut chutney.  I’ve dined in some of the finest restaurants in the world but nothing tops the memories of this.  I also lost 20 lbs in a month!

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Neela, Vimli and Lali administered my treatments.   Billed as healing “massage” (oft times that was a misnomer) the treatments involved a lot of oil while being laid out on the teak table called a droni and abandoning your modesty for a muslin loincloth.  Chanting in Hindi emanated from the box on the wall.  Ohhhmmm, shalla walla, ohhhhmmm.

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The steam pump you can see in the lower right hand corner attached to a sweat-box.  Almost comically, you sat in it with your head sticking out while they increased the heat until you couldn’t stand it any longer.  Many times, the best part of the treatments were when they were over! 

During the day, between the yoga the aryurveda treatments, we would hike through the hills, feed the local monkeys the kitchen’s leftovers or read books in the garden.  The month I spent at the retreat was idyllic, mind expanding and life changing.   In a quest for that same sense of peace and well-being, I would go back  in a heartbeat but think that my impulsive journey is beyond replication.  The constraints of my current western life and responsibilities make a return trip but a dream.

Namaste.

Next post:  Small dose.  What to do when a voyage to the other side of the earth isn’t possible.

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January 26, 2010

Personal Rx For Winter Survival

Filed under: Destinations, Various & Sundry — Queen of Cashmere @ 8:10 AM

This post started out to be about my winter survival kit featuring the products that I use  to beat back the ravages of a harsh Chicago winter.   My current obsession, and part of the formula, is a line of handmade, Italian products which happen to smell like cucumber.  Light, fresh and hydrating.  Ahhhh.

photo Leonardo Martins

photo Leonardo Martins

 

Two key products of my winter remedy are a body cream and companion spray oil that are created at a charmingly romantic, 250 year old villa in Italy.  The line is so obscure that I couldn’t find images online so I called the Italian offices.

Italian Villa

via Ben on Flickr

Allora, the exclusive US distribution rights are  held by a company big enough to be a household name.   Yes, you would definitely know the corporation.  

My US contact was a woman named Mia C.  Our conversation went like this: 

  • Mia C.: “No, we don’t have images.  I can send you some product and you can take your own pictures.”
  • Me:  “Great!  That’s  so nice. After I take the pictures, I will use the products for a giveaway on my blog.”
  • Mia C.: “No, you can’t do that.”

I’m a little slow on the uptake.  Mind you, I wasn’t soliciting a freebie, what I was really in search of were images and I crawled the internet and called from Italy to Arizona to find some.  I wanted to tell the world (my little slice of the blog world, at least) about their products.   And the bounty of a freebie?  That was going to be passed on to my followers.   It took me a minute but this BIG national company wanted me to return the two bottles of moisturizer after I photographed them, gave them free buzz and told my readership where to buy.       

Does this strike you as mean and stingy?  Yeah, me  too.  Cut the music and bring up the lights — ZERO blog love for them.

And then I got to thinking…

Let’s be honest.  I use different products in the winter but I don’t use them to get me through the winter.  Instead, my M.O. is to run away in search of a life changing experience.  Every year, it happens.  The itch.  The urge.  Like clockwork, it starts around Christmas and reaches a crescendo every February.   Sometimes, like last weekend, the cure is short and sweet.  Sometimes, it’s a once-in-a-lifetime, other-side-of-the-world adventure.  

So, tomorrow,  the first in a three part series: Coping with Winter Caron-style.

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January 13, 2010

A Meeting Of Minds or Why Everyone Should Have A Really Big Bust

I left a comment on a blog the other day.  The post was on my favorite topic of monogramming and personalization.   It is often said that the meat of  a blog can be found in the comments and I couldn’t agree more.   A comment left,  in response to mine, by Civility Design reached out and grabbed me. Like minds.  Stylistic soul-mates.  Who were they?

Of course, I had to sleuth them.  Their website let me know my instincts were right.  Don Raney and Jaymes Richardson, the talented,  monogram loving duo behind Civility Design and I were destined to meet.   We like so many of the same things.  The best part?   They are my neighbors.  Not neighbors in the scope of cyber, which could mean anyone living under the same weather pattern, but truly two-blocks-over neighbors.  I shot off an e-mail  and they responded with an invitation to talk about our love of all things personalized.  I knew that this meeting was going to be a good thing.

Now, let me just interject that I have a bust fetish.   A major one.  I do have two antique, carved busts of Romans perched on sconces in my living room but what I really lust after is a great big terracotta bust on a pedestal.  Put a bust of an 18th century Frenchman with a wild wig full of curls and a Gallic nose in my living room and I would never need another thing.  Don and Jaymes employ busts galore to lend a sense of history to their interiors.  That was my first clue.

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 Second clue?  A fearless love of punchy color and gloss.  I’m feeling those horn chandeliers, too. 

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But it was doggy love that sealed the deal.  Mavis Astor meet LouLou.

Mavis LouLou 

Not pussy-footing around, we selected a place to meet for coffee the very next day.   The Elysian Hotel recently opened a few  blocks away we were all interested in walking over and having a look-see.    From the moment I entered (and was greeted by those amazing busts)  I knew I wouldn’t mind playing Eloise at the Elysian.  Is the casting call for that role still open?   F5CS7882

That afternoon, in a wonderful setting, we laid out  plans for a Civility Design/Queen of Cashmere  media collaboration.  The topic?  Personalization beyond monograms.  

Out of the ether of the Internet, real friendships emerge.

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January 11, 2010

Queen of Cashmere Monogram Giveaway

Last week, I googled “Queen of Cashmere” to see what would pop up.  Just curious.  I found online love (which is a little different from finding love online).   The search turned up accolades that had gone unnoticed.  Unrequited, if you will.

There, on the first page of the results, was a blog post about Queen of Cashmere products.  And more, there were comments from readers proclaiming approval and desire.  Let The Tide Pull Your Dreams Ashore made my day.  How does one say thank-you for a vote of unsolicited approval? 

Well, one gives back, that’s how.   I dropped Ms. EAS an electronic note of thanks, and offered a monogram Pasha Pillow for her to give away on her blog.  The pillow comes in the winner’s choice of monogram and colors.  Delivery is 6 weeks – perfection takes time.  Pasha Monogram Pillow

This should be fun so spread the word.  Each participant can be eligible for up to 4 entries.  It’s simple and open to everyone. {Update:  Yes, we can arrange shipping to Canada, UK and EU!} Oh,  and even if you don’t want to enter, please join the Queen of Cashmere Facebook Fan Page.  It was set up just today and, as I type this, it’s an embarrassing expanse of virgin territory with nary a fan on the rolls.  Change that and make me happy.

How to get in the game:

For 1 entry…leave a comment   at Let The Tide Pull Your Dreams Ashore  giveaway blog post by Monday, January 18th, by 5pm EST. 

For an additional entry = 2 entries…become a follower.

For an additional = 3 entries…write a post about this giveaway on your blog or become a fan of Queen of Cashmere on Facebook.

For an additional = 4 entries…tweet about this giveaway with a link to this post  and include twitter ID, @queenofcashmere

Warmest (Cashmere) Regards,

Caron

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